"There are far better things ahead, than any we leave behind"


[noun] the fact of desiring to be in a long-term relationship


WhichDate.co.uk combines years of experience of awkward stories from the trenches of dating as well as expert opinion and research to help end your Single-ton-ness

Dating Frustration

Imagine if online dating was easy, you had the tools to find the perfect partner. Imagine your favourite love scene with you as the main character.....we're thinking full on Dirty Dancing moves.

When you imagined dating, you had thoughts of romance and passion, sharing cocktails on a beach, dancing in the rain, curled up with your other half next to an open fire,

DEFINITELY NOT sat in front of a screen for hours upon end hopelessly searching for someone to accept a wink. Every message comes with a cringing feeling and you want to hide from the world at the thought of joining another online dating site.
We've been there and want to help


With many years of combined experience, the aim of this site is to make sure that you don't have to go through what we did.
By bringing together shared experiences, we hope to help you find the person who makes you crazy smile, who brings out your uncontrollable dancer, who makes you do embarrassing nose snort laughs

In short, we want to help you find love!

"Im so glad I bit the bullet and joined online dating, hands down the best decision I've made and its how I met my soon to be wife"


31, Manchester

"I had been single for nearly 2 years and didn't think I would meet anyone, but finally I met a man worth waiting for...."


34, London

"We got married last month [October 2018] and it was the best day of my life. I feel so lucky to have met her.



"On my birthday this year (24th June) we were on top of a glacier in an ice cave in Iceland on holiday and he asked me to marry him. We’re planning to tie the knot in spring 2020"




online dating blogger


Reviewer | Experienced Dater

After years of dating and spending too much money on trying to meet the one. Darren finally settled down and now shares his experiences and puts the new sites under the spotlight to give you the low down

paul thomas bell dating blogger


Dating Blogger | Experienced Dater

An experienced dating blogger whose writing is based on experiences, both the good and the not so good. Helping our readers learn from his mistakes and sharing his truthful thoughts on the state of dating today

fred dating blogger


Reviewer | Blogger | Dater 

Our resident senior dater.
Fairly new to online dating but with a wealth of experience behind him. Fred is currently in the market if any of our readers fancy a late night cocktail. 


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UK Wide coaches

A vetted list of recommended dating coaches across the UK and Ireland on hand to help you find long lasting love faster.

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Make your profile sing

Make sure you are presenting the best version of YOU! Perfectly crafted words and polished pictures that get you noticed.


Helping you find the one, quicker!

Read our reviews, learn from the advice, submit your profile for a rework, contribute a review, take our quiz.

Experience alone is all well and good, but to bring you the best advice possible we have spoken to a number of relationship experts & dating bods and distilled a tonne of information into both blog posts on this site and a free e-book, specifically for people who are new to online dating.

'The Beginners Guide to Online Dating' has everything a person will need to know about online dating. 

If you want to:

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  • Receive some top tips from dating experts
  • Get the most up to date information and reviews from dating sites
  • Receive dating offers and discounts

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In the coming weeks and months we'll be adding more to the site, We have some big aims! In the meantime, read the content we have and if you have used an online dating site, agency, app or just have a dating story to tell, please contact us.